My boyfriend still goes on dating sites
I was wondering if you could help me with something that has been playing on my mind recently…
It recently transpired that my boyfriend of 15 months has been looking at girls on a dating website that he used to use before he met me.
Other people can come into your house – via emails and Facebook – 24 hours a day and you aren’t any the wiser.
It’s not surprising that we are on alert more than ever before.
The other big difference is that our homes are much more porous than before. In the past, there was one phone and we knew who had called.
”, “heal and move on” and “learn to love yourself enough” I would really appreciate any advice you have or to point me in the right direction with your books, as I find your site a great resource for relationship issues and whenever I type it into google it comes up with all sorts of unhelpful forums.
I understand that we’re all human and we notice the opposite sex, but I just have lots of questions running through my mind now like “was he being genuine at the beginning?
”, “is he such a sexual being that when I’m not there, his eyes wander and therefore will he cheat on me?
I told him how it really upset me and how disrespectful I found it, especially as it was a dating website.
He responded with saying that although he didn’t see anything wrong in it “it’s nothing”, he could see that it had upset me and so when I asked him to delete it, he went ahead and deleted his account.
I feel really confused, as my current partner used to tell me that he only had eyes for me and he was (my name-)sexual/asexual, as he stopped looking at other girls in that way.